Aquarius thoughts on cheating?

Ok so Im having a debate with my ex aqua bf. We broke up because he ended up cheating on me towards the end of our relationship of 1 and a half years. He says that its not that big of a deal to cheat on a gf/bf but it is never okay to cheat on ur fiance or wife.





He never cheated on his other ex gfs, just me. But the thing is allll of his 3 ex gfs ended up cheating on him, plus his father is cheating on his mother. (One ex gf didnt cheat but they only dated 3 months so that doesnt really count). So his whole past basically tells him its ok to cheat on a bf/gf. He said that he fells horrible for doing it to me cause I was the best gf he ever had and that I didnt deserve it, its just that he isnt ready to be for a serious relationship like I wanted. But he says that he wouldnt really care if he cheated on future gfs because then its not a binding contract like a marriage.





Sounds really stupid for me but is this really how u Aquas think or is it just him being an a**? And is there any way that I can convince him not to do this to future girls, because I dont think anyone deserves this to happen to them. I really wish that there was something I could say to change his mind about this. And he is all about thinking about things logically. This doesnt seem logical to me, but for some reason it does to him. Sure u may not have a contract binding u to ur bf or gf, but its about being a good person. Can anyone give me an idea of what to do or say to him? I guess I could see its okay to date other girls while just in the stages of dating, but once someone is ur gf it should be exclusive. Whats the point that of having a gf then? Any advice from u guys?? From an Aquas point, what should I say to him? Yeah I know u cant change someone unless they want to change, but still...








(Long I know but thanks for reading)Aquarius thoughts on cheating?
I've dealt with Aquarius men. Same thing happened to him. I think it's all shite. He's just giving an excuse to put his dirty d!ck in whoever he pleases. Don't accept that load of garbage. His reasoning is flawed. What he really means is that he doesnt care about you, his freedom is more important than being tied down with you.





If he chooses to marry you, then he'll leave that life behind, but until then, he wants you to just deal. But of course, as long as you two are dating, or were, you must not cheat on HIM.Aquarius thoughts on cheating?
You know this is a good question.





I think they can either cheat or be loyal it all depends.





But I think the main thing is they get too depressed to go searching for something they already have at home.
I personally had my heart trampled on by an Aquarius. From what I learned from my experience is that Aquarius will justify their behavior no matter what. They are very good at analyzing a situation and doing what benefits them. I have lots of love for Aquarius people in general, but they can be rather self-centered. They will think nothing of playing mindgames, and using you for sex. Sex is not an intimate thing for some Aquarius its just another thing to do, not all Aquarius's do this but I've yet to meet one with puritan standards. Which is why so many Aquarius types can have friends with benefits and laugh at those who think its wrong, to them.. its just sex.





I don't know if my answer helps or not, but personally I would be very careful if its commitment that you want from an Aqurius. Some are very capable of being loyal.. however traditionally.. Aquarius, Sagittarius, and Virgo males tend to put off marriage the longest. They need to roam free.





As an afterthought..


I've found that Aquarius people tend to need complex personalities. They are the scientists of the zodiac.. they need a challenge, and if that challenge isn't there.. they get bored. If you can provide that.. I'd say go for it.. if not and if you like routine and like the white picket fence with a dog and 2.5 kids I'd look elsewhere.
Um, no we don't all think like that. Me and my boyfriend are both Aquarians and we are very loyal, and have a lot of respect for each other.
First this is not astrology this is psychology, but with that being said I understand you are looking for an astrological way to deal with it and the answers are all right there in your question with him being a logically thinking aquarius.





He grew up seeing his dad (prominent male role model) cheating on his mom. Now the possibility has been introduced. Next he recognizes the weight of a written contract. He does not see himself in any kind of contact so in his mind all of his gf relationships will be open ones.





The way to fight this is with wording- plain, simple, to the point, on the verge of lawyer- wording. If you are looking at getting back with him explain that it will only be on the terms of a closed relationship meaning you and only you. Most times this goes without saying but when the possibility of cheating being ok was introduced into his way of thinking through his dad that ';goes without saying'; part flew out the window.





Next if you want him to think about this with other girls show him the difference between a closed and open relationship - logically - open means both parties are able to see other people and closed means both parties are not allowed to see other people. Adding this definition and requesting he ask the next girl if she is looking for a closed or open relationship may help simply because it is not cheating if both parties agree it is acceptable. Also make sure he understands that if he agrees to a closed relationship it is in fact a verbal agreement which with witnesses holds weight as a contract.





Explaining this and that you were under the assumption you were in a closed relationship (verbal agreement which was entered into when one asked the other to be bf/gf).





If he doesn't want to see the error (whether that is you misunderstood the agreement or he did) then just walk away, you can't help him or anyone else he dates. Also with looking at this logically do NOT let your emotions about the cheating cloud your words, push that aside, what's done is done.