How do you deal with a cheating husband?

I have 2 children, well 2 babies to be exact and well my husband is and has cheated in the past. Before i never really knew if there was sexual relations but now i know. He doesnt know i know, what should be my next move?How do you deal with a cheating husband?
Well you definitely have him at an advantage and I will tell you why. See you know he's cheating and he is unaware that you know so that means he thinks everything is going according to his plan. Well heres where the fun begins. I am going to assume he's working and you have access to the family banking accounts right? I would get a restraining order against him barring him from the home (make up something, like he hit you or he threaten you) and change all the locks...Call the car service and tell them you locked yourself out of your car so that they can pick it up, also get the car locks changed. Call the credit card company and report his credit cards stolen...they'll cancel them immediately. Clean out saving and checking accounts...open one up in your maiden name so he can't access yours. Cut him off from all the luxuries he thinks he's enjoying. When he calls home find out what's going on tell him quite simply '; I figured you and your girlfriend deserved a fresh start....so I made it easier on you....Click. Girl...the satisfaction is worth the effort I can assure you!How do you deal with a cheating husband?
If that was the past before your married then let it go. Just signal to him in a nice way of what your present family need. Good Luck. God Bless you and your family.
confront him with proof and an attorney
Leave him!
I wonder how many in the world face this problem. I think best is to tell him on face and see his reaction. If it has been only once and casual and he shows the promise to change, he should be pardoned but if he is habitual , come out of it.Try to improve your behavior. Many women lose their husbands due to their behavior without realizing it. Initially they are so busy and involved with babies that they neglect husbands and than it is late. Do you care so much on your appearance etc as you used to do during your courtship or initial years of marriage. How much both of you communicate and how much interest you take in his job or work place. No way I mean to make you responsible for it but that is how things can be saved.
your next move is to take those babies and move out. If you can't move out, have his stuff waiting on the front porch with new locks on the doors. I'm sure he can go stay with one of his f*** buddies.
That would depend on what you want.
Go an have your own affair, it might make him jealous.
Ask him first - - make sure you have 100% proof before you do. IF he really has had a sexual relationship with someone other than you, then it's time to GET OUT!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater. Good way for him to catch a disease and spread it to you (and then possibly your kids) The kids' welfare should come FIRST and FOREMOST.
If you know for a fact that he is cheating on you, leave him. That will give him a wake up call. Do not cheat on him as well to get even and so he will know how it feels. If you do then he will be able to say that you did it to him as well. Since you have not cheated on him, you will be able to say that you was always faithful to him at all times. I just walked out on mine for cheating on me. It hurts like heck to be cheated on, I know and it is also going to hurt like heck when you walk out him for cheating on you.





By walking out on him does not mean that you are going to leave him for good. It is just a wake up call for him. If he can prove to you that he really does love you and will get his act together, you will go back, but one more slip up and you are gone for good.
It is up to you..


Whatever you do, you must tell him you know about it...


You can forgive him and watch him in the future or you


can divorce him..
No, hon, don't go out and have a affair to get even....You'll just get AIDS or some other goddamn thing..... Get out the marriage. If the guy is cheating now, he will do so always.... he is no husband, and sure enough no father. Hope you have stashed $$ away --- every woman should have a stash. But, for sure, get out. Mine did that betrayal as well -- couldn't stomach the thought of him ever touching me again. Left, told him to get the divorce, moved to another state, and found someone else. You can too. Counseling would have been useless -- the whole idea of intimacy with him made me vomit..... Good luck sweetie..
your next move will depend on his response after u confront him, if he lies,or doesn't show remorse, than he doesn't care if he hurt the marriage, and u need to move on, divorce and all, but if he is truly sorry, and shows repentance, and agrees to counciling, than theres a good chance for a happy ending. it all hinges on his response, and no matter what he says, his actions will be the proof of his true feelings.
how does that song go.... key the side of his souped up 4 wheeldrive, carve my name in his passenger seat, take a louisvills slugger to both headlights, oh n i slashed all 4 tires...some thing like that, yeah thats in insperational song
Leave him and don't look back.
well i am going throught the same thing, and you need to sit down and ask him to tell you the truth. Do not give out how you found out or anything, see his experission on his face. If you know your husband then you know the truth or a lie. I thought i knew my husband but i have found out tht i really don't know who he is anymore and he just keeps telling me lies. I am having a hard time moving on right now but if you love someone then let them go, because i believe that everyone deserves a second chance but if you fail on the second chance then they never really loved you at all.
give him the walking papers as soon as u have the money to leave him there r men out there that will not cheat on u and love u and ur kids and help u take care of u and ur kids i am speakin from my life