How to deal with a cheating husband not willing a divorce. Age suggest middle age crisis. Now 51 when will end

I still love him and he says he is living with me for our children's sake. As he was a very good man I feel it is middle age crisis and time will solve the problem but feel miserable at times.How to deal with a cheating husband not willing a divorce. Age suggest middle age crisis. Now 51 when will end
Short of castration - I gather from the wording that he says he does not love you. Do you really love him or are you frightened of the unknown. He either has to stop the games or you will ultimately have to move on. Your happiness is at stake.How to deal with a cheating husband not willing a divorce. Age suggest middle age crisis. Now 51 when will end
perhaps the best thing would be use subtle devices. insist on a holiday. go somewhere you can bond together and rekindle the flames. maybe a second honeymoon type thing. or you could look for a marriage booster- check out better-marriage.org for a 'program' designed to spruce your marriage up again.
You need to leave! If you stay then you cannot complain because your giving permission to do what he is doing.


You cannot stay with him for the children what he is doing will hurt them in the long run, it teaches them to let people cheat on them. Be strong and stand your ground, don't let him treat you like this.
Children are not stupid. They will clearly see that something is up and you are not happy. Don't you think you are worth alot more than that type of treatment?


How will you cope when 'he is just home late from work again'?


U deserve better in my opinion. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I hope life gets better for u.
I doubt this will blow over. For your piece of mind start stashing money away, keep records of crap he is pulling (dating habits and spending money on the the new honey).


You are not going to tell me you want ';it'; back in you, after ';it'; has been somewhere else. Are you?
If he is not willing to divorce sere divorce papers on him on the gorunds of adultery. Ultimately you don't NEED consent It only will take longer.
Try counseling. Both individual and couples therapy.
The grass always looks greener on the other side. Let him try it for awhile. he will be back Pronto.
Don't worry men die early.