Put a keylogger on your computer. You'll capture every keystroke ever made. If nothing comes up then let it go. If something does, print it out and drop it in her lap. What's she going to do, accuse you snooping?What is the best way to deal with a cheating wife? How do you catch her when she covers her tracks too good?
It takes a crook to catch a crook. Know what I mean, Vern?
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Do what I did, I told her i hired a PI and I hava the evidence,
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so it was best for her 2 come 2 me and confess rather than me throwing everything on her face that she have denied, and if she wants 2 stay with u she will tell u everything so that way u 2 can start fresh again IT work i am telling u
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Is there a prenumptual agreement or something is the reason you are trying to ';catch'; her in the act so you can scream adultery? Otherwise why not just get it done and file? Or are you like me and you just want to be able to go, ';AH HA! I caught you! You lying little JERK!'; Because if you can't hire a P.I. then you have to follow her yourself.
Sorry your going through this... I've seen many friends who have gone through this as well. So from someone who is not emotionally attached with your problem.
This has been the best route so far:
1.) If your looking for some evidence for your divorce... Hire a detective it will pay out in the long run... Your screwed if you tell a judge well your honor she was cheating on me without proof.
2.) Find a good divorce lawyer... Who says your going to get one... But a lot of times they have contacts in the field and again it will save you money in the long run. It will all happen so fast and the lawyer can delay the payment of the fees for both their help and the private investigator. This masks the cost till she finds out...Often times by then its to late. If you decide to get a divorce you can tack it on the marriage so the bill is split! If not.. Its a worthwhile cost to jump start counseling.
3.) After you have taken steps to protect yourself... Approach her and ask.. Even if you know the truth ... Give her a chance to be honest with you. If she is there is a chance your marriage can still work..If that's what you want.. If not... Your on the ball.
4.) Serve her with the papers. Most divorces have a waiting period. And if you both want to work it out its a serious wake up call.. If not? Well hey .. Why let your life go by?
Hope that helps,
RM.
get some one to follow her and pay them and .my friend did that but she wasn't cheating. she was working late..and stop to see her parents .he never told her what he done....we never told her .every so of-fen he call us and nothing.but he pay and will never trust her,cause .....cause he cheating.that why he don't trust her
Confront her about it. A friend of mine just went through this. Just ask, she may deny it, but if the signs continue keep asking her every few days. Explain to her that things seem different, tell her what you have been noticing and ask her straight out what is up with her. She will eventually feel so guilty she will tell. If you don't want to do that, just leave. If you are so sure she is cheating, just get out. Once a cheater always a cheater---it has been proven over and over again.
It's possible that she isn't cheating, you know. You may just be being paranoid. There are always signs. If you can't find any but suspect anyway, it may be YOUR problem.
Dude, if you have even a doubt in your mind, then WHY are you even with her?
Grow some f*cking ballz, cowboy the f*ck up, and leave her.
Or kill her. It's all good.
follow her.
get a divorce.
Have you tried a video approach. You can go to any rent-a-center place and rent one for a week, hide it somewhere you ';think'; she might be and then good luck. If you can't do that, then hire a friend to the searching for you. I think your best bet if you have asked her and she said, ';no, I am not cheating';, is to either A) Take her at her word or B) Video her or C) Hire a friend to ';spy'; on her. Good Luck.
take it from a woman and i hate to confess this but we are good at cheating and that is only because we learn from you men and i am not saying that you are one but look if you cant catch her and you really believe that she is cheating you may have to be slick and hire a detective and say the money went some where else. but you have to ask yourself one question... do you really want to know the truth cause assuming is one thing but to actually know is another. good luck
If their ins no evidence how can you be so sure, My husband swears up and down I am cheating but he is totally wrong. Anyhoo, call cheaters.
you have two choices.......divorce or forgiveness
IF YOU CAN'T RE-ESTABLISH TRUST,LET GO- WITHOUT PROOF
if you feel like this then i would just leave i mean there is no reason to hang around and wait to catch her. Ur making yourself too UN happy just worrying about it.
Lojack, Hidden camera, Tail her, Hid ein her trunk and suprise them
Well why don't you pretend that you have to travel for business and than you'll have all the time you need to find out if she's cheating or not coz if she really is cheating she'll get him over or at least she'll try to spend the nite at his place. but if you usually don't do business trips than find a good excuse to be away for one nite coz if you're saying that she's clever and always a step ahead of you she'll know the trick and she'll avoid it.so be courageous and give what she's asking for (a nite without you) and good luck..
The best thing you can do with a cheating wife is to let the other man have her forever. Sooner or later she'll cheat on him, too.
put a spy program on the computer. put some voice recorders and cameras around the house you know just do a little surveylance.
Have you tried following her ? Showing up places unannounced ? Checking up on her during lunch at work ? Checking her mileage to see how far she is driving ? Checking the cell phone records for #'s you dont know ? Checking her car for signs or matches or something ? If you look you shall find.
Well you could spy on her at work. Take a day off and park somewhere near her office. Watch who she goes to lunch with.
Check her credit card bills. Ask a friend of yours that she doesn't know to spy on her a little in a store, restaurant, etc. they have camera phones now, you know. Ask your male friend to hit on her to see what she does. Check her cell phone call lists to see what calls she's made or come in to her (if she hasn't erased them). show up at her job unexpectedly and see how she reacts. if she's nervous and wants to hustle you out of there, there's a good chance the person she's cheating with works in that office.
There are a million ways to find out where someone goes and what they do.
I have a suggestion, pehaps you should consider getting out of this relationship. The more you subject yourself to this corruption the more it tears away at your trust for people. It's so not good for anyone to live with mistrust. There are good honest people out there. Don't let this relationship harden your heart.
Um, hello, people? The ';kill her'; stuff is a little much, particularly given the fact some people might actually go out and take that advice.
Anyway, do something completely out of your routine. For example, if you suspect she is going out at a certain time, say leaving for his house after work on Wednesday night, then show up at her work at quitting time and take her for dinner. Then watch as she squirms to get to a phone to call him and let him know she can't make it.
If every red flag is there, then why do you need to catch her? If you already know then get out while you can. If you're not ready to get out, check her cell phone records if you can. That's what my husband did with his ex wife. And he caught her!
hay I'm Alix and i think that I have your anser. are you havin sex and do you tall to her, what abut go out much How long have you know her. answer me.
iight get the name of the person someone saw her ';with'; and ask him was he with her and say you are her brother and he ma tell you then go to herand confront her and tell her that the guy she was with even said they were together and dat should work
Why do you want to catch her, you would be just hurting yourself .If you are really sure ,tell you know,see what she has to say. Don't waste every day trying to catch her out, that's soul destroying and time wasting.If she's worth it , try sort it out.....if not get out of there.Wish you all the best.
Be patent she will screw up. People always do
those mp3 players that also voice record are cheap very small and inconspicious they go for about 20hrs on one battery. need i say more.
strategically placed video cameras and microphones
Radio shack sells inexpensive telephone tapping devices. You would have to hide it all in the attic or someplace like that. With a small VOX recorder, telephone conversations will be recorded. If she has a cell phone, check incoming cell numbers, see one that is not familiar, go to a pay phone and call it. Home or business phone would show up on caller ID. For about 70 dollars you can buy a camera that is motion sensitive, and will photograph everyone coming in or out of your house. Place a small VOX recorder(hidden) in her car. All conversations will be recorded.
kill her
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