How do I deal with cheating?

He came out and said what he was doing. he said it had nothing to do with me, that he had problems with relationships and when they get to serious he always destroys them .we now go to couples counceling. and he lets me have access to every thing from his phone, e-mail and bank account info. however i now spend my days checking his phone records 50 times a day! and checking his e-mail all the time as well. we are working threw this but i don't know how to deal with the emotions. what is the best way to tell my self 'move on with the relationship we are working threw it '.How do I deal with cheating?
I don't know your boundaries but I have a strict no cheating policy because I would never do it myself I believe I deserve a partner who would never do it either. Do you really want to waste what precious time you have on this earth checking for suspicious e-mails and phone calls.





If you honestly feel in your heart that you can not only forgive but also forget then there can be a good chance of moving on but if you think you will never forget this time in your relationship and you will always be bringing it up and being suspicious of him then it might be a good idea to call the relationship off.





Atleast he is making an effort by going to couples counselling so maybe you should give yourself a time limit of how long you are willing to try and work on this and say by that time you just can't find yourself being able to let it go, then let the relationship go.How do I deal with cheating?
nah grrl u need to stop that can give u and emotional break down and u dont need that it wont help u cuz ur gonna end up not trusting men especially one that may respect u
leave himmmm
say bye bye now, bye bye
All i can say is you are extremely strong to be trying to work it out with him cuz i couldnt do it. What ever happens i wish you good luck
keep going to counseling...however, speaking from experience, you never really trust the person again..it will always be in the back of your mind as to whether they are cheating again and just being more clever about it...