Ok..we all know the deal... emotionally cheating bf tries to rectify the situation..Should I meet her or not?

Ok. for those of you who havnt read my other blogs. Long story short. have been in a relationship with my bf for a couple months. We have had a 12 year friendship but he has been emotionally cheating on me with this girl from work. She aparently doesnt have feelings for him cuz she is in a serious relationship with her bf. Unfortunately me and my bf were going through a tough time and he broke it off with me and admited that he had feelings for her and came clean about it. He went as far as lying to me about this trip he took her for a day with her roomate and a bunch of his friends. He lied to me about talking to her and said he'd end the emotional affair. HE NOW WANTS TO WORK IT OUT.... Ok .. NOW HERES MY PROBLEM. In a healthy relationship you shouldn't tell someone what to do. I would ask him to cut all ties with this girl because our relationship cant heal when she is still involvd in his life. I mean he basically left me for this chick because he didnt know what he wanted. I love him so I guess i could let him work on it Rather then completely exing her our of his life because she is only a *friend* now so he claims... he proposed that i meet her so i can become comfortable with their friendship. I really dont want to. but should i do it ??? A lot of other responses tell me no dont do it. dont give it a chance. he has to cut all ties. but how bad would it b if i did meet her and tried to understand. do u think this is fair or what the heck should i do now. im confused... HELP!!!Ok..we all know the deal... emotionally cheating bf tries to rectify the situation..Should I meet her or not?
Oh my god just dump him! He went on a day trip with a whole bunch of ';friends'; but didn't include his girlfriend. Now he wants you to meet this girl, why so that you can be in social situations together more often which will give him plenty of opportunities to cheat with her. He says she's not interested because she's in a relationship but why does she hang with your man so much? By letting him do this stuff you're telling him it's ok honey, do what you want, i'll still be right here when you're done. I would just walk away from him because it's clear he doesn't appreciate you and there will always be some other girl around that will give him the extra attention he craves so much. I could never trust a guy like that. Ok..we all know the deal... emotionally cheating bf tries to rectify the situation..Should I meet her or not?
i don't think you should get involved with him again if she is still in the picture. even if you do meet her, the worry will always be in the back of your mind. that's not healthy.
It sounds to me like you need a new boyfriend.


I don't mean to be mean, but what makes you


think you can change this guy?? I wouldn't be


giving him this chance...I think he's probably


manipulating you both.
You really don't want me to answer this question.


READ what YOU just Wrote and THINK about it.
Im going throught this ';emotional cheating crap'; with ths guy I been dating 6 months as well. Just pray. Pray that God gives you a man that has his heart and soul into you
...um...i think u know the answer....follow ur heart and forget wat everyone else has to say!!!