I called off the wedding but I am too embarrassed to tell any of my friends what he did. I still wear the ring.
He has cheated on his exes before. What should I do?How to deal with cheating?
If he has cheated on past girls and he cheated on you at least 5 times, then I don't think he is going to stop. I would find someone else. He doesn't seem to want to stop, maybe he enjoys sneaking around, that thrill of doing something bad. Until he decides its time to settle down with one woman, he will continue to cheat. This is my opinion, hope it helps.How to deal with cheating?
You keep that ring! He cheated, so that means he forfeits the ring. You should have known better than to even DATE a cheater! Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater! Be glad you found out before the wedding and then WAKE UP, don't go out with guys that have cheated in the past and look forward to find the RIGHT man! WHY should you feel embarrassed, HE CHEATED, not you, you have nothing to feel embarrassed over!
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You shouldn't be embarrassed to tell your friends hes a dirty cheating scumbag. Let them know!
Don't wear that ring and ditch this sleaze-ball. ';He has cheated on his exes before'; %26lt;- You already have the proof that you can't trust him farther then you can throw him. The perfect guy is someone you can love and trust in ALL aspects, this man is DEFINITELY not the one.
You should ditch this creep and find yourself a decent man who truly cares about you, because this asshole doesn't.
Find a new guy. I have tons of guy friends and they all told me that guys do not just change, especially not just for one girl in a world of millions.
Also, because he cheated you're going to worry. A relationship should not cause you stress...if it does, it's 8/10 times not worth it. Finally, because you're worried you will try to control his life. You will wonder where he's going, when he'll be back, who he's calling, who he's with and what he's doing. It will eventually become an unhealthy/abusive relationship because he hurt you.
A relationship will not work without trust and after doing this he does not deserve your trust. Don't be embarrassed. They're your friends. They'll just talk to you and probably help you feel better and telling you what any sane woman will tell you.
Leave him because you deserve so much better.
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It sounds like cheating is just who he is until he stops being selfish. Good for you that you called off the wedding and I understand its embarrassing to tell your friends. But it may help them help you. Its not your fault he is a cheater. Move on with your life. If he cheated maybe once and was truly apologetic for it maybe you could forgive him but five different times WOW that is not forgivable.
find someone better.... he is not worth your time.. he doesn't take you seriously. you shouldn't be embarrassed to tell your friends. they are your FRIENDS they should be supportive, not make you feel embarrassed. you have nothing to be embarrassed about, he is the cheater, not you. keep your head up. there are better men who are more perfect for you than him.
... and marriage is supposed to change this behavior?
He's not done foolin' around. Give him the ring back, say when you're done getting you dick wet, you can attempt to propose to me. No guarantees
You're probably breaking the heart of some guy out there who is just waiting to treat you with respect and make you feel loved.
What a B*****d. I can't stand guys who cheat on their girlfriends/wives. They've got no self respect. Get rid of him. Dump him and tell everyone what kind of person he is. You don't need to be embarrassed about anything, he's the one who couldn't keep his pants on. This guy obviously doesn't respect you and doesn't love you. Your lucky you found out before you got married.
Move on and find yourself a decent guy. Good luck
Guys cheat cuz they know they can do better. Buy him cheating 5 times it shows how you are too. He thinks ur weak and desperate and gullible.
Any girl who is confident and secure slim and attractive will neevr ever put up with 1 cheating let alone 5.
If he can do that to you when you are engaged to be married, be ASSURED he will do it after marriage also. He ADMITTED to 5, but how many were there really ? Obviously, you do not satisfy him so DUMP that loser.
sell the ring..take a vacation to someplace sunny...find a dude with a nice big dong..and forget forget about that loser. people like your ';man'; are how you make your ';downstairs'; sick (S.T.D.s). dump the fag
you need to get rid of him. show him your not going to disrespect yourself by being with a cheater.
you need to tell your friends
they might make you feel better. cause more than likely he will do it again.
You need tot ake the ring off and step away.
Don't be embarassed for him being a pig.
If he's cheating on you, he's not the perfect guy...furthermore, you're not his perfect girl.
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If he has not BEEN faithful, he will not BE faithful. Leave him. You will go through pain and hurt but it will be okay in the end. You are worth more than that. Value yourself more than that.
You need to move on I mean you have to look at you could get an std or even worse get married and have him cheat on you more
Take it easy. If he is cheating you than cheat him too (that if you still love him). Otherwise kick is *** and send him out of your life.
You leave his sorry ***! No girl should ever have to put up with some asswhole. Ditch the ring!
You don't ';deal'; with it. You break up with the jerk and find someone better.
just go sleep with any guy and get a divorce!!!!!
sleep with his best friend or his dad IF hes hot :D
Drop him, it's a reoccuring pattern.
Leave him you don't half to put up with that
';Once a cheeter......';
Get rid of him he wont change
move on no one should put up with that
just leave him , i think you will have more problems after being married
break up wit him before u wont trust no other man it's a good man out there for u
I'd find a new man.
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