This older guy im going out with....does he like me or is he just fooling around and possibly cheating?

i have started going out with this guy who is a couple years older than me (i'm 15) and well he's really sweet and nice (he waits for me after my soccer practice at school and then drives me home, our first date he payed, he even came to visit me this weekend when i was sick, and even my mom likes him) we started going out last weekend [so about almost a week ago] the thing that bugged me at first was that i heard he was a perv and what not, but then it didnt because a lot of people also told me a lot of good things about him (like hes not a player,he'll go out of his way to make his girl happy and that hes jsut so sweet and polite) in the past week ive noticed both sides, but not so much the perv part. .The only thing that sucks is that he rarely holds my hand when at school, or kisses/hugs me as much as he does when in his car or at my house. hes been acting weird. waht could be his deal (cheating? not into me?) how can you tell if a guy actually likes you? (besides him saying soThis older guy im going out with....does he like me or is he just fooling around and possibly cheating?
Um, well. First of all, You've only been going out for a week, so just give him some time. People talk mess, and it might not be true. You'll never know, but he might want to take slow. He might also be PDA-phobic. Haha, he might not feel comfortable with kissing in public.





I'm not very sure how to tell if a guy really likes you when you've only been going out for a week. But just give it sometime, maybe he'll open up a little.


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-AliceThis older guy im going out with....does he like me or is he just fooling around and possibly cheating?
uhhhh?
some people don't like pda. if he sees you enough outside of school, he wants to hang with his group during school. i mean give him some space he's not cheating on you.
it's probably just the age difference
Just threaten to leave if he really love you then he will beg you to stay, if you wanna take it further and get hard truth, try really leaving him...but of course repeated confrontation helps too...or just get a trusted friend to try going out with him as a test as well.
Its up to you to decide, maybe confront him?
It souds like he might not be the kind for big romance in public, and likes to wait for moments when it's just you two. And all guys are somewhat perverse. You say ';Good job, you're my type.'; Most of us will snicker with our dirty minds in action.
He might be worried that people are gonna call him a perv if he does stuff like that in public. I dunno. Just a guess.
You both seem to have the same hold ups, your worried what people thinks of him and he's worried what people thinks of you. It's normal and will pass in time.





If your happy be happy and don't look for reasons not to be
U cant tell if a guy likes you because we don't have brain reading machines. U R 15 and and should be going out with your girls and not stuck up some boys butt!!! Take some advice from me%26lt; put boys in the back of your mind and just have fun because before you know it you';ll be an adult
i have the same problem
Well, you know that the pit of your stomach is ALWAYS right?! If this guy is sometimes sweet but can be pervy and has been acting weird you know HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. I bet that you could find someone who will take your breath away and this guy will be some pervy piece of meat. Don't worry about it. If you really like him try talking about it to him and if he reacts strangely end it. BEST OF LUCK!