Cheating; and how to deal with it?!!?

I gave my old laptop to my dad and mine broke today so i decided to go on it, when i viewed his history they were filled with dating/sex websites. I viewed one of the dating websites and it said that he was unhappily married and looking for fun. He is occasionaly going to ';nights out'; when he drives down there himself to meet his friends. I just don't know what to do, should i assume he is cheating and tell my mum or forget it? I need to do something as the guilt is eating away at me but i don't know how to tell her? PLEASEE! help :(Cheating; and how to deal with it?!!?
Talk with your dad first - it could be that your parents are only still together because of you - and they have an open marriage.Cheating; and how to deal with it?!!?
Hes up to no good, tell your mum and let them sort it out....show her the proof
Sometimes the power of suggestion can work miracles. Change your home page to this website and see what happens. That will get your Dad real nervous and maybe he'll think Mom is on to his game.





http://www.womansavers.com/catch-a-cheat鈥?/a>





even if it's in the history it can have the same effect...
I despise people like you.





You found it necessary to use property that you gave to someone else. Yet instead of accomplishing what you needed to do you decide to take it a step further and start digging around into someones personal affairs. You're a spy. A busy body. A creep and a sneak.





You should be ashamed that you even did that. Its no better than rifling through drawers and closets and looking in strong boxes and jewelry boxes in your parents home when they aren't around.


That is so terribly wrong and this 'guilt' you feel is only because you went and found something you had no business searching for in the first place.





Tell your mother and incur the hatred of your father...and maybe even your mother as well. In fact that would be richly deserved and they alienated YOU as their daughter from their lives right up to the day they die and refuse to acknowledge you.





You see how bad things happen. How one little 'peek' is like toppling over a single domino and causing a chain reaction?





Live with your guilt. You've brought it upon yourself and deep down I hope that it gnaws away at you for the longest time. Penance well deserved for your transgression.
If you talk to anyone you talk to your Dad.


You feel all that anxiety because you are /avoiding/ what you know you ought to do - you always confront the person who you are most involved with. To do otherwise is cowardly, i.e. you would be forcing your mother to confront him over what you are concerned about.
yes tell your mom...
Its your Dad's life, and someone else could have


used that computer you don't know for sure.


If you did tell your mother wouldn't believe you and your


father would most likely pack your stuff and kick you out.