How to deal with possible cheating?

So i caught her sending taking racy pic on her cell phone and she says theyre for me when i ask her who theyre for she said for her, Unfortunatly shes been careless and has been emailing another man,(or more),her relationship with him is mostly talk but he keeps writimg fantasy sex stuff to her and asking for photos more and more revealing ones as tiime goes on. What do I do her and I have talk and she knows i know about this just now how detailed i know. she says it is stupid and said it wold stop. but she still hangs on to her phone like it is fort knox she even sleeps with it. takes it into the bathroom when she showers and puts it under her pillow at night.How to deal with possible cheating?
Why should any man or woman have to deal with a person they love cheating? She will keep it up as long as you do nothing. You have to stick up for yourself, tell her what you know, and tell her if she wants him than go for it but that you won't be there waiting on her. There is nothing worse on someones ego than having to deal with someone who is sneaking behind your back with someone else. Her actions speak volumes that this hasn't ended. Kick her to the curb, your better than all this. you have to decide who you are, and what your going to put up with. You know your worth more than this.How to deal with possible cheating?
Tell her you want to take your own pictures of her for yourself. She seems to be the type that like attention, and has an exhibitionist streak in her. Possibly if she knows that you're enjoying racy pictures of her, maybe she won't feel the need to send them to a stranger.





An alternative is to go out of town with her, and allow her (and relish) to give peeks to strangers. Be confident in the knowledge that YOU will ultimately be the one who ends up with her at night.
So ir's stupid? It's emotional cheating how is it stupid? The fact that she was able and willing to do it in the first place is stupid and she owes you big time. Are you telling her you want to see her phone?





Look you are asking this because you love her and you dont WANT to leave which is fine I am all about marriage and saving them BUT she is getting away with it. Make it very clear that that was THE last time.. she got a freebie..





Cheaters are weak manipulative people... remember that.
And you're putting up with this because.....why?


This isn't ';possible cheating'; this ';is cheating';. Emotional, actions.





How to deal with it? Move on, ditch her. As long as you stay with her it is showing her you will tolerate her cheating behavior.
Sending pics is not a real cheating. It is just a play. But that is sure, you have be on guard what is coming out of this story. Anyways, you may play that game together. Ask her for initiation into her secrets, you will enjoy all the details.
Jeff you know but you do not want to know what is going on. Marriage is based on trust does taking the phone with her were ever she goes when at home sounds like she trust you?
You are right to believe that she is hiding this from you. It sounds like she is enjoying sneaking around with him. Have that talk soon.
cut off or sew up the necessary extremities or orifices and go on with your day personally i would leave her and the only remnant of me will be a video of me doing another moman in our bed
Kick her to the curb.
There is definately something going on and she doesn't want you to find out. At least she doesn't want you to know the grizzly details. I don't know how you feel about her or what the situation is at home but it needs to be handled. If the relationship has run its course then it is time to move out and move on. If the love is there and the relationship has just been going through a phase see what you might be able to salvage. I would get rid of the phone though. It is like a 600 pound snack addict walking into a chocolate store(assuming they can still walk and get through the door). It is temptation at its finest.