Is cheating physically OK to forgive..? please advice how to deal with it?

Am in a relation more than 2 years now, last weeK i confront her with all her going arounds...I had doubt she was cheating me several times...finally she open and admit she slept with some men just for her needs..for money.I know she is needy so used to help her a lot in her life with a car home money etc..she has 2 teenage kids to take care....she say am still short of money..due to recession i couldnt support her much and hence she choose to go around and get money....I know she loves me a lot and i love her too...am sure she dont have any emotions attachment with any men but only physical...do you think she deserve to be forgiven.. i have strong feelings she might do it again and again...we both are expatraites in a country ..my time has come that i have to leave the country ..we both need each other....now am thinking if it would be better i leave her and go far....if i stay back i may get more heart breaks....do you think physically cheating emotional cheating are to be dealt same?


some one please throw some light on this scenaria...thanks in advanceIs cheating physically OK to forgive..? please advice how to deal with it?
Wake up pal, you may think you love her but, she doesn't love you to treat you like that and have sex with other men.





I'm all into saving relationships but, after she slept with more then one she is probably just a disease carrier now. Cut your losses and move on before she infects you!Is cheating physically OK to forgive..? please advice how to deal with it?
too much baggage. I'm all for cleaning the Planet but, leave that trash on the street where you found it.
It all depends - can you accept her behaviour and forgive her for it?





Also, you know that she can be killed doing what she is doing... Tell her to get another job because she can contract diseases and even have some psychopath murder her.





Send her to counseling too, if it's purely for the money and not because she wants sex with other men, she needs to be told (professionally) that there are healthier ways to make money and that her behaviour is inappropriate especially considering that she has kids.





In response to answer 1: not entirely true, some people change. She could love him; some people can disassociate the physical behaviour from their emotions. Not everyone is an evangelical christian :) Some people are naturally polygamous but that doesn't mean that they aren't capable of love.
Sounds to me like she's content with using anybody she can to survive. Keep in mind that she's not forced to live the life she's chosen. She's conveniently used excuses to keep herself surrounded by a status quo, hence staying in the same gutter. There are plenty of ways to improve your life and becoming more independent. She would rather lay on her back instead. You will end up with a disease before you know it because you are technically sleeping with all those men when you sleep with her.





I say pass her up and go get tested in every way so you don't give someone else a disease down the road. She will find some other patsy to take care of her.
Maybe your lack of self esteem in your current financial situation is the cause for her continued cheating. It is NEVER ok to cheat, and then for money? There are many other ways to earn a dollar besides giving yourself sexually to other people. I think this is something that she enjoys doing and uses money as an excuse. Leave or stay is up to you, but you are sleeping with every man that she has slept with. Aids, herpes, genital warts and more are some of the diseases that could come home along with the money she is bringing.
Cheating is Never okay under any circumstance. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I wouldn't stay with her, because she is going to do it again. If you stay with her after what she did, then she will think it's okay to do it again and you will just forgive her. In reality, if she is sleeping with men for money, that makes her a prostitute. Lord only knows what kind of diseases she will give to you. Stay away from someone like that, she's a user. If she loved you, she wouldn't be sleeping around.
Cheating is an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others,





Emotional cheating may be correlated to that of emotional abuse, which to date is treated seriously in a court of law as physical cheating. With the expansion of understanding of other cultures, there is a wide spectrum of what cheating means. When in a committed relationship, the definition of cheating is based on both parties opinions and both parties may redefine their understanding to match the party at an either lower or higher extreme of this definition. Some couples simply believe that cheating constitutes doing anything, whether verbal or physical, that one would not do in front of their significant other.





Physical cheating involves the people meeting face 鈥?to - face, and then engaging in physical intimacy.