How do you deal with your spouse cheating again?

check this out! his mother died and he went online and started to chat and meet up with girls again.. how do you deal with this situation? like you want to be there for him, but at the same time he has violated my trust again? I dont know what to do? i told him i didnt want to see him again and that he can make living arrangements with those females he was talking to(because he was staying with me). He also lives in his own place, but he cant afford the rent anymore and about to lose his car and some more valueable things. what should i or can i do for my own sanity?How do you deal with your spouse cheating again?
Expecting someone with a variety fetish to accept monogamy is as stupid as expecting a homosexual husband to swear off men. Only 2 courses of action that make any sense here:





1) Accept him for what he is, demand respect, and set some ground rules that accommodate his fetish without him having to lie to you.





- OR -





2) Dump him. You do not have to be home when he comes to visit his son. Somebody else can fill that role.How do you deal with your spouse cheating again?
The next time he goes out the door, call a locksmith and have all the locks in your place changed. Put his things out on the front porch and post a sign on the door that says ';Sorry, but this hotel is no longer open for business. There are plenty of other hotels downtown. All intruders will be reported to the local police.'; I actually did this one time and it worked!
He's already cheated and is now using a terrible situation like his mother dying to justify doing it again?





What about this man is worth even asking this question for???





You are a woman of worth and beauty. Go to mirror and tell yourself this so it really sinks in. You're worth more than this
Leave, my mother died too and I didn't cheat... he's in control of his own actions.





By staying, you are telling him that is' OK to treat you that way. If you stay you are allowing it to happen and ultimately continue. By leaving you are saying that you won't be treated that way, nor should you allow yourself to be treated that way.
I'm sorry, I wouldn't let him use his mother's death as an excuse to deceive me, because that's all it is...an excuse. If he needed some emotional support and some comfort, then why didn't he come to you? I wouldn't let him make that mistake once, but definitely not twice. He would have to face the reality of his decisions and that means by not having me in his life anymore.
Run away from this man. File for divorce. He is a little boy. By continuing to accept him back, you are enabling his cheating. I know it hurts but he is bringing hell into your life, your bed, your heart. Look forward and don't look back. Be strong. We can make it in love and life without cheaters my dear sister.
I'm sorry, but are you serious? Leave his butt! Theres no excuse for cheating physicaly or emotionally. When I am in distress I turn to my partner, not to strange men on the internet. That in itself should be a red flag. Most men go to a bar, but he went to the internet? Creepy.
OK firstly is he your husband, secondly well girl you made up your mind, and i do not disagree with you for letting him get the step in, i mean if he's gonna do u like that then u need to tell him to hit the road Jack and don't come back no more!
u need to put yourself 1st by the sound of it u have already gave him chances b4 dont let him use the situ about his mother dying and his financial situ 2 make u feel bad 4 him - as u said he has violated your trust AGAIN dont allow him to suck u dry emotionally or financially b strong and get rid of him
It definitely sounds like youve had more than enough of him and his infidelity. So then its time to cut your losses divorce his stupid a.s and sue him for whatever legally you are entitle to and move on to greener pastures, and leave him to his bimboes. Good luck
Visit:





www.survivinginfidelity.com





Whether you choose to support him or you choose to move on, its a great group to help you keep your sanity. It offers advice for either way you decide. Good luck.
Treat him like a friend. Tell him you'll give him a place for like 3 weeks tops then after that it's to the curb with his ***. OR tell ';Sorry. Karma's a ***** isn't she?'; I really like the 2nd one ;-)
I think you should sever all romantic ties with the guy and help him find a new place away from you. If this doesn't work in the short term then cut all ties. You can't sacrifice your own life for his.
Nothing because there will never be a second time! His *** will be out the door the first time! We deserve so much better than some unfaithful guy! Sorry, but there are good men out there and I just so happened to be married to one!
the guy is a creep he betrayed your love and your trust for nothing more than phisical fullfilment there is nothing to someone like that he has no heart or soul or he couldnt do thoser things get rid of hiom now
Keep yourself busy doing the things you love to help yourself forget about him. Change your number if he won't leave you alone.
You say again, you should have left him the first time he cheated, then there would be no again!!!!!!





Once A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!!!!!!!
You can do one thing. Leave.
I would have left him after the first time. If you want to be there for him I'd make it by long distance.
Have some respect for yourself and leave him.
Key word.. AGAIN. You're mistake hun.. you should of left him the first time.
Get an aids test.
total loser dump him !!
don't stay with someone who cheats?!
been there done that. sweetie he will never change. stop putting your life at risk. he could bring something home to you that will end your life. or something you cant get rid of. so get rid of him love isnt worth it. cut your losses and move one. i understand you love this loser and dont want any harm to come to him. however, dont make him losing his place your problem. the most valuable 'thing' he stands to lose is y


YOU. take care of yourself, heal and move on. there is an e-book that helped me when i left a husband. its called 'break free from their spell' its by tigress luv. you should be able to find it pretty easily on the internet. good luck
Believe it or not, but you have already made the step toward your sanity. You decided to relieve yourself of the ';source'; to most of your problems.





';Misery'; lives right down the street from ';Lost Trust';, ';Low Self Esteem'; will move in across the street and eventually ';Damn Fool'; will be voted in as Mayor of that little town in your head. By the way, my name is ';Your Conscience';, but you can call me your new best friend and I live behind you in the rear where I have been for most of your troubled relationship. Seeing now that you have more room, you should consider moving me up front where I can be of better value to you.





p.s. Don't you hate it when you start hearing those little voices?






For your own sanity? Leave him, he's going to have to deal with quite a few more serious issues in his life and if his way of doing that is to betray you then leave him, can you deal with that for the rest of your life? I wouldn't want to. Tell him you;ll be there as a friend but that things can't work out between the two of you in a romantic realtionship. This is for YOUR sanity, because if you stay with him, you'll probably always worry about him talking to other girls, trust me, that will drive you crazy!!