we've been together for almost 4yrs now and he cheated on me twice which i have known and the last one was worse becoz i opened it up to him and tell to him and his girl that i know about them and this girl told me she just tricked by my husband that telling he's divorced i was hurt because i know it's allowed but at least i want to be informed i hate things esp rel;ationship involved he keeps on hiding and lying to me.and the worse is even they broke up from what i know accdg to the girl he keeps on calling him and trying to be with this girl and he's easy to flirt with other girls just give him a message and so on he flirt with them or keep on calling them or whatever his been doing with them...i hate him really but i love him so much though he's such a perfect husband sweer, caring and responsible but if he's mad he's same like hell he hurt me physically,verbally and mentally he's worse person and i always wished i never even met him. many times i want to go but i never had a courage and now especially there's a child involved which in our court the child will be with father not maother if divorce..i'm devastated...i don't know i'm torn...please give a decent advise.How should i deal with my cheating husband in regard of our religion,we're Muslim?
I'm sorry for you. My dad cheated on my mom when I was little and even though my parents worked it out I still have problems with it. Can you get a divorce? If possible I would. Tell the authorities about what he does to you. You are a person with thoughts and feelings and dreams! You are important too! Just because you are a woman and just Muslim doesn't mean that you have to put up with being mistreated. God loves you and he wouldn't want you to stay in a place where you are getting hurt! I'm a Christian so I am not exactly sure what is allowed in the Muslim faith but it is against the law for him to hurt you because he is angry. He needs to control his temper and it is against the law in the U.S. for him to cheat on you. Do you really want your child... your baby... to see what their father does to you and think it is ok? It is not ok for him to treat you like that! Don't let him... you can find someone that will treat you better than that. Be strong and don't take his garbage! Think about it if he really cared for you he wouldn't be cheating with another woman! It doesn't matter if he lied to her because they still did it! It sounds like he treats you good when he feels like it not because you are a person and you deserve respect. Most likely you will get the child because you are its mother. Make sure you have some where to go and some way support yourself and you will get to keep your child. Especially if you can prove he abuses you, the court will not give your child to an abusive father. Good luck!How should i deal with my cheating husband in regard of our religion,we're Muslim?
Wrap him up into a white sheet and throw stones at him until he is unrepsonsive or until you feel that your honor has been restored. Don't forget to invite all of your friends to participate becasue this is a community organized event, be sure to let the children watch. We will all be better people for it.
I was married to a muslim too.Live with it or get out now.I know you love your child but for now either live with it or get out get a good attorney and fight for your child .do you live in the USA or overseas?
You're Muslim, who cares?
I do not know much about Islam, but I do know that in some situations it is okay for the men to have another WIFE, but he has to be stable enough to take care of the women and they know each other, if he is keeping secrets then where is the honesty and trust. You pretty much knew what you were getting into by marrying a Muslim....right? No matter what we all have feelings and we all have emotions, love yourself, if you have come to the realization that this type of relationship is not for you then you need to move on. So far as your baby, if he is cheating, when is he going to have time to raise a child he is afforded the opportunity to do what he does now because you are there, and he has time to do it. If he was raising the child alone he could not be a rolling stone at least not as often. He will get his just rewards, you stay strong and keep your head up, God places people in our lives for a reason a season and or a lifetime, we just have to know people's positions in our lives and accept them. God does not make any mistakes, yes you have a child together, but who is to say that God only placed the two of you together to create your child for his purpose. I would seek God, with him you cannot go wrong. You are a Queen, if you act like a Queen walk and talk like a Queen he will treat you according.
I WILL NOT ADVISE YOU IN REGARDS WITH YOUR RELIGION, ALL I CAN SAY IS FOLLOW WHAT YOUR HEART TELLS YOU, STAND FIRM TO WHAT YOU BELIEVED IN,
RELATIONSHIP IS A TWO WAY TRAFFIC REGARDLESS OF YOUR RELIGION... YOU ARE A HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS, AND MUST BE RESPECTED AT ALL TIMES AT ALL COST...
YOU MUST SEEK LEGAL HELP TO YOUR EMBASSY!!! OTHERWISE GO HOME...
ALL I CAN SAY IS DO SOMETHING!!! MAKE A MOVE, LAY YOUR CARDS, TALK ABOUT IT. DO YOUR PART, IF HE DIDN'T CHANGED,
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO,,,,, YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE!!!! IT'S NEVER TO LATE BE BRAVE MY FRIEND!!!!
GOD WILL SHOW YOU THE LIGHT!!!! HAVE FAITH
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