What are the signs somebody is cheating. How should you deal with it and stop jumping to conclusions?

There are a lot of obvious signs, don't need to point those out.!!!! the real sign , is the one in your heart. You know the truth. Sorry life sucks!!!What are the signs somebody is cheating. How should you deal with it and stop jumping to conclusions?
sometimes you done know the answer before you ask. I am not saying you should jump to conclusions. Just look for signs like him making up excuses why you guys cant go out. Or forgetting to call. Tell him whats been bothering you and then ask him if he has been cheating.Sometimes when they are lying they will pause before they answer but remember if he is you deserve better because you want some one you can trust.What are the signs somebody is cheating. How should you deal with it and stop jumping to conclusions?
first of all, i am a cheater, ok, and i highly recommend it to anyone who is trying to get a over a relationship. my advice to you is let them go because something your doing is not satisfying your partner be it sex, your looks or something. get over it dont dwell on it , dont be a crybag *****. let them enjoy their new affair and please leave them alone.
If you are being accused of jumping to conclusions,but have good reason to be suspicious,that merits a closer look...men deny right up until it's proven,and sometimes even then.In addition to the above,watch for:





Guilt behavior-showering you with compliments/presents/false reassurance





Unexplained cash flow issues/credit card charges





';Exploring'; new places/internet singles sites/excessive porn





Avoiding the topic-sick of it,';you are too paranoid'; whatever





Hiding things-cell phone,bank statement etc





Drifting apart emotionally





Different sex than usual,change in frequency,seems routine





Altering looks,hygeine habit,grooming





Vague with whereabouts





Go with your intuition and you won't be sorry in the end.Good Luck
1) He calls you by someone else's name.


2) You find a rubber in his pocket and you don't use them (or use a different brand)


3) He comes home smelling of someone else's perfume and lipstick.


4) Lipstick on his underwear.


5) He has hickies/love bites/monkey bites and they aren't from you.


6) Those scratches on his back aren't from you.


7) You're at his place, the phone rings and the caller hangs up when they hear your voice.


8) He has women's underwear in his pocket, it isn't yours and he hasn't recently been to a strip club and he doesn't wear them.


9) His credit card bill shows a purchase at Tiffany's and you didn't get anything.





How do you deal with it? Dump him if you know he is cheating. Love is all about trust. Dump him if you cannot trust him. It will hurt, but it will hurt more later. Just make sure you are right.





Good luck.
secrets kept from you


2nd phone


everything is password protected


Phone is ALWAYS on them


Your relationship seems distant


Always out with 'friends'


Home late


Showers before you get chance to go near


Home late from work alot





The best thing to do is ASK but be prepared for the answer.





GOOD LUCK!!!