How to deal with cheating?

my husband is deployed and i looked on his messanger and found out he was getting onto chat rooms. then we talked it out he said that he wouldnt do it again then i found out he made up a whole new myspace and was talking to 2 of the girls fron his messanger on there. then on top of all that i loged onto his mail myspace messanger and was like 60 female comtacts with nasty and dirty user names. What do I doHow to deal with cheating?
you REALLY need to have a talk with him. some guys think its ok to say/do stuff because ';its online'; but its NOT, he is still betraying you and your trust. Tell him how you feel and if he doesnt care enough to do something about it you may need to just leave himHow to deal with cheating?
Before making any decisions out of frustration, simply talk to him and ask him what he is looking for that you haven't provided him with. Even if you have been as devoted as a wife could be, just pose the question to him. People often look outside of their marriage for different reasons. Companionship, excitement, lust, but very few do it for love unless they feel they aren't getting it with their spouse. It sucks to have to cater to your spouse if you know you haven't done anything wrong but a lot of times it may take a little more involvement on your part to get him to truly see the error of his ways and how much he hurts you by being on-line with other women. I had a similar problem with my wife a while back and she actually did sleep with someone else. We worked through it and I realized what I could do to keep her from feeling like she needed attention from another guy. Once that is established, you've done all you can do. If he persists after that, then it's time for you to find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
You shouldn't trust him anymore. The first time he did wrong., okay the jokes on him because he got caught and he is sorry but the second time around the jokes you on, he did it again even though you two already talked about it. He is showing you that he won't ever change. I think you should leave him, he is unfaithful and it sounds like he won't change.
You shouldn't trust him anymore. The first time he did wrong., okay the jokes on him because he got caught and he is sorry but the second time around the jokes you on, he did it again even though you two already talked about it. He is showing you that he won't ever change. I think you should leave him, he is unfaithful and it sounds like he won't change.
I am sorry for your feeling betrayed. He needs to understand that the e-chatting and being on my space as he is doing is for single men not married. Also, that it is emotional infidelity and it hurts. He is puffing up his ego with all the attention and he needs to knock it off. He is probably quasi addicted to it and thinks it's no big deal. You need to let him know that it wounds you to the core. How would he like it, if you were doing that. Don't tell him about what you discovered. Just talk about it again but be clear. If he keeps lying about it to you then you make up a name and contact him, then oust him in your own way.
Hey, I have been added my several men via myspace who I discovered are married and who fully reveal their desire to have someone else (who their wife will not know about of course). It isn't rare for men to do this - they are curious about whether they can find someone else to have an affair with (Not saying your huband is certainly doing that) but I would say that it doesn't look good :(


Maybe have a 'trial separation' if possible
Hi I'm also a military wife and I know how hard it can be since some girls are all over our guys! Honestly I think you should have a serious talk saying that if he doesn't stop your gonna leave and if he doesn't then you gotta leave. Us wives go through so much for them and we only expect the same from them. Good luck..
Okay, so I spent a year in Iraq. I can tell you right now that he is cheating on you. That's what a lot of people, not just guys, do over there. I can't lie, I did it. And I never thought in a million years I would cheat. Drop him, it's not going to stop. Your better off.
Wow! That sucks! But it sounds like he isn't being faithful to you. A relationship works 50/50. He's not giving his 50. Try marriage counseling, if he is willing to change and do right, if not move on girl! There are other hot military men that are single and would treat you better!
my husband works as a contractor over there, he lost my love, they turn into their true selves, i'm sorry for what you're going through,


they're not good enough for us, they're pathetic, become one of his contacts and inform the other women?
If you want to keep him, learn how to please him in bed so he doesn't feel the need to look somewhere else what he's getting at home. But if you don't want to keep him, dump him and move on.
Don't ';deal'; with cheating!
get rid of the dirtbag
leave his ***