How can I deal with him cheating on me? (might be a bit long)?

I am currently 4 months pregnancy and i am having some issues with my baby's father/ boyfriend. Ok so before i got pregnant, he cheated on me twice with his ex girlfriend (who by the way has a son with him). Ok so now she is about 5 mnths pregnant. I am trying my best to forgive him for what he did but a part of me jsut can't forget about it. Anyways apart from that, he tells me he wants us to make it work. a part of me wants to becuz i don not wanna go through this by myself, but another part of me is scared to get stay with him cuz im terrified he's gonna cheat on me again. This is my issue with him, sometimes he can be so sweet and caring and romantic and at other times he can get very distant and quiet. I dunno what to think. I know he's going thru a lot with this other girl being pregnant too, but i wish he would talk to me about his problem. I feel like he's jus playing with my emotions and i don't know what to do.How can I deal with him cheating on me? (might be a bit long)?
You don't deal with it. You really need to do yourself the favor and move on. You will never look back and regret it.





If he loved you, he would not cheat with you. The fact that he HAS (more than once?) indicates he has zero issues doing it again. Face the fact that if you stay with him, he will never be faithful to you. Ever.





And why would you want to get involved in a life time of drama? He is going to have a child with some other girl and you? Maybe a couple more children elsewhere in the future? Get out of the situation while you still can for you and your child. Your child will be better off in any life with you over being in a ';family'; that will be broken and dramatic.





Realize that you can do it on your own, without him. (you probably already are doing a lot of this on your own). Leave him and don't look back for the sake of both you and your child. He may be the biological father, but he'll bring nothing but heartbreak in your future and your child's!How can I deal with him cheating on me? (might be a bit long)?
He is playing with your emotions. And he is a cheater, with two babies on the way. I'm still trying to figure out why you would even have considered having a baby with a man when your relationship is so rocky and he keeps running back to his ex. That should have been your first clue that maybe he just really isn't all that into you.
i didn't read the details about your question. i only read 'how can i deal with him cheating on me?'; you don't deal with it. you ditch the loser and move on. pregnant or not. cheating is not ok. a man who cheats on you obviously does not love you. if he did, he wouldn't have cheated.





ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER. he wont change.
Run like the wind. This man (boy) is no good. I'm assuming that you are very young (under 20) and I would advise you to consider adoption and get your act together. Get an education, a good job and later---a good man to be the father of your children.





You deserve no less than that. Stand up for yourself!
Oh I would run!! He will probably do it again. You don't have to do it alone, just don't be in a romantic relationship with him. He sounds like an a$$.
Well, I Could Say Leave Him Cause He's Caused You So Much Pain, And Still Could...


But if You Want To Stay With Him It's Your Choice Too...
The answer is--you DON';T deal with it. He already cheated on you MULTIPLE times, and now has TWO women pregnant. YUCK! Don't you feel you are worthy of better treatment?!
leave him, why be with someone who will cheat on you? make him pay for child support.
Leave him, then he'll see what he's actually lost.
Stop sleeping with him. He's trash. You don't think you're worth being with a man who at least has the decency not to cheat on you? He got another girl pregnant. He doesn't love you, he keeps you around because you're useful. The next hot girl that crosses his path, he'll go after her. That's what DOGS do, and he is a dog.
Are you seriously asking HOW to deal with this guy?





Simple answer....you don't.





Get your butt out of there. This is a man who's go 2 women pregnant at the same time and obviously doesn't love either of you or your children as he should.





Never mind weather or not YOU deserve better, here's a way bigger question. Do you want this scum raising your child? Do you want your kids growing up seeing this as acceptable behaviour?





EWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!